Sunday, November 25, 2012
The Face of God
Thursday, September 20, 2012
St. Peter is watching you.
Tuesday, August 28, 2012
In Service to Others.....
• Offer compassion and acceptance in all we do for others.
• Step outside our comfort zone to share with others.
• Sacrifice from our first fruits, not our leftovers.
• Always remember that those we serve are fellow members of the Body of Christ, fellow children of God.
• Realize that we are all a huge family and everyone is our brother or sister, deserving of our love.
Mother Theresa knew how to do this, and she is our hero!!
Friday, June 22, 2012
Homeless with Children
Saturday, May 26, 2012
Monday, May 21, 2012
Rest in Peace, Don
Thursday, May 3, 2012
Some needs are more than basic....
3. Hygienic assistance
Thursday, April 19, 2012
Of Debris and Donations.....
Just to let you all know that life at Hope House is not always glamorous; recently, I opened the cupboard under the sink and out toppled a LOT of debris. I do mean a lot and it was almost all garbage or junk—quite unpleasant to deal with! However, I try to never expect my staff of volunteers to undertake tasks I am unwilling to perform, so I set the afternoon aside for some cleaning on my knees. See the results?
So you may ask what this has to do with anything. Beyond the obvious fact that I spent some “quality” time on my knees (get it?); the element of service was overwhelming. Many of the staff avoid that cupboard because it is so unpleasant and it is difficult to find anything in it. I have made their lives incrementally (very small increments) easier while working in the kitchen area. This was a small gift from me to them, in gratitude for all they do at Hope House for our clients. They deserve so much more!
So on to the donations. Just a couple of days after this cleaning spree, I had one of those wonderful days in which everywhere I turned, someone was giving me money and checks. It was almost like it was raining down from heaven. One cash donation from a volunteer enabled us to help pay the water bill of an elderly woman who had just been released from the hospital, and went home to find her water turned off. Her anxiety level was so high we were afraid she would end up back in the hospital. Between the client, the donor, the volunteer who made the arrangements and the administrator at the church who wrote the check, the circle was magical. We call these “Godshots” at Hope House—direct, divine intervention in the lives of those we serve.
So we are back to “serving”—I can’t help but hope that there was a connection—a reward, as you will---for the clean cupboard. Truly serving others in His name is what we are about at Hope House.
Next, the bathroom!
Monday, March 12, 2012
Have you ever had a pet you loved beyond all reason? You know, the one you would tell your secrets to, the one you trusted to keep those secrets and give you unconditional love and acceptance. We all remember a dog (or cat) like that in our life—a companion whose loss we grieved when they passed on.
Animals are wonderful therapy for us humans—a sounding board that won’t talk back or offer differing opinions about our behavior. We pour out our pain and loneliness and receive in return a big lick, a wagging tail, a silky purr…..and lots of love.
For those of our clients who are without homes at the moment, their animals ARE their homes and their family. They also offer protection and warmth, companionship and acceptance to those who are often marginalized by society. One of my clients called his dog his “best friend”, and I think that sums it all up!
There are often judgments made about those who are either homeless or low income having pets; “how can they be so dumb as to add another mouth to feed when they can’t feed themselves?”, “that dog/cat is keeping them from a decent apartment”—these are all things I have heard said.
The simple truth is that people need contact with another being, human or animal. Without that contact, it may be difficult to feel alive in this world. We honor this commitment between friends at Hope House by offering pet food and supplies when we can. Drop some by if you love animals!
In the meantime—go hug your dog or cat.
Friday, February 24, 2012
I'm surrounded and I love it!
· Mary W. loves to show new clients around and help them find everything they need. She has also cross-trained for several jobs at Hope House, so she is valuable everywhere!
· Mary S. spends hours filing records for us and is eagerly awaiting our new computers so she can do some data entry.
· Mary J. and Mary S. (a different one) both are hard-working sorters and hygiene distributors in our kitchen area.
·“Young” Mary is a college student who never fails to show up when she is home from school to lend a hand—often doing all the running up and down the stairs for us!
· Kathleen works quietly at Hope House in the afternoons and on weekends when we are not open. She is a master organizer with wonderful vision, and helps us keep things working efficiently.
· Ellen has been with us since the start of Hope House and has kept the infant/toddler clothing under control for years. She also works with Kathleen on keeping the upstairs storage under control.
· Don, John, Dick, Ricardo, Bill, Pug and Dianne are our “air traffic controllers”—they work the front desk, keeping track of who is coming and who is going, checking people out, answering questions, keeping the coffee and cookies replenished and just generally being the center of our daily life!
· Then there are the “shed pixies”, Ray and Jeanne, who keep our food bags packed, our donation bin emptied and just keep the storage shed organized—love them!
· Bonnie, Tim, Chuck, Ann, Jan, Judy and Carole have special jobs listening to those in need of financial assistance and discerning who and how they can help. God bless them for this ministry!
· Lynnette, Carole, Shirley, Ann, Chris, Sarah, Becky, Chuck, Maura, Evelyn, Kathy, Caroline, Keegan, Liz and more that I have probably forgot to name, all work very, very hard in our kitchen area, sorting donations, handing out food, hygiene and diapers to a never ending stream of clients. We couldn’t do it without them!
· Pat and Judy help with intake, as well as Becky, Mary S. and Bill. This is the position that takes time and sensitivity and it is not for everybody, but these volunteers make it look easy.
· Paul stops by Hope House a couple mornings a week to vacuum and empty the garbage for us. I can’t tell you how much it means to come in to a clean work area!
· The Street Outreach team—a unique and totally focused group of wonderful volunteers who go out in the dark and cold to bring food to the homeless where they live; Theresa, Bonnie, Sharon, Roland, Christine and Phil—you rock!
Speaking of the Street Outreach team—their backup crews who make lunches each week make it possible, both the team at Assumption and the wonderful Sandwich Brigade at St. Paul’s. Wonderful, wonderful people—each one.
Here are a few examples of how these volunteers make things nicer at Hope House:
· I come around the corner past a window where we often hang clothing. In the window I see adorable coordinated outfits; complete with tastefully arranged scarves, all in green (St. Patrick’s Day is coming). Someone has made sure we look like a store for our clients.
· I discover packages of cookies stored at the front desk—because “it sometimes takes too long to go back to the kitchen when people are hungry”. Enough said.
· Even with lines of people waiting, I cannot convince the kitchen crew that they don’t have to give people an option of what fragrance of shampoo they want—they like to make sure the clients get to choose.
· The lunch packing crews for the Street Outreach are uncompromising in their dedication to a quality lunch—they make what they would serve to Christ—fresh meat and cheese sandwiches, homemade cookies and fresh fruit!
I wouldn’t trade any of them for anything! I love them all.
Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Long enough?
Can someone tell me why January seems like the longest month of the year? I reasonably know that there are 6 other months with 31 days in them, but January seems to last foreverrrrrrrrr. Perhaps it is the cold, the gray, the cloudy, the letdown after the frantic pace of the holidays; but for whatever reason, it seems like it will never end.
Certainly that is true to our clients, many of whom come in 2-3 times during January, and often are completely tapped out by the 30th. Some of them come just to get out of the house; some come to see if they can get more blankets and warm clothing so that they can turn their heat down to save money. I think many come for the warmth: both the physical warmth of the building (and the coffee) and the warmth of human interaction. During this, the coldest time of the year, clients seem to chat with each other more, spend more time sharing resources and stories. The only other time we see this much interaction is during the middle of summer, when everyone feels relaxed and we spill out the doors to sit and chat on the grass.
It is when I see young mothers showing off their babies with pride, toddlers playing cars, men talking sports and cars, that I am so glad we rearranged our waiting area into a “living” area! Hope House community times are precious to us and part of our mission.
So back to the loooonnnggg month of January—I pride myself on my ability to treat people with warmth and love. It's why I work where I work! But sometimes towards the end of a long, hard month I find myself less than charitable in my interactions, less patient with those who are demanding and not as friendly as I like to be. I had one of these days recently and I did not like it—I told my volunteers that it was not a good day for me to be there.
Just when I thought I was going to have to go home upset over a wasted opportunity of a day, three things happened:
1. A homeless gentleman whom we have been working with forever, and who had fallen off the wagon a few months ago, came in. He did not want to talk to me, would not look at me, but just asked if he could have some food and socks. I replied that of course he could. Then I told him I miss him—not just once, but 12 times in the 5 minutes he was with me. He went out to get his food, and on his way out the door, he looked me in the eye and said “I miss you, too.”
2. A young woman came in who needed help with a bus ticket to Seattle for a seminar that would help her get into college. She has been homeless, recently housed by another agency, and all she needed was $9 more for the round trip ticket. We had no way to get her a check for that amount that day, but while I was talking to her, the volunteers had gathered up the money from among them, along with a packed lunch to eat on the way. She sat in the chair in my office and leaned forward, sobbing into her hands. She said she couldn’t believe we believed in her.
3. One of my long time clients, a young mother, came in to proudly show off her newest bundle of joy—the most beautiful little girl, who I was able to hold (those are the perks of this job!!).
So my day, and my month, ended better than I had anticipated; and I haven’t even mentioned several “Godshots” we had in the last week.
That’s another posting.
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
Making a Difference
Tuesday, January 17, 2012
All things important
Monday, January 2, 2012
A Happy New Year
Today was our first day open in 2012. A new year, new challenges, maybe a perfect time to say thank you:
Thank you to all those who donate items or money to Hope House or Assumption Financial Assistance. Without you, we quite simply would not have anything to give to those who come to us in need. God bless you each and every day.
Thank you to those who pray for us, talk about us to others, and say nice things to those of us who work here. Your support is crucial!
Thank you to our clients—for being so patient, so thankful and so friendly and helpful to each other. It is not easy to be poor—the endless hours of standing in line, the bus rides with tired, cranky children, the long walks when you don’t have a bus ticket or a car---we wish we could make more things in your life easier.
Most of all, thank you to the dedicated and caring volunteers who staff Hope House. We have over 50 active volunteers on our list, performing many of these duties with love and compassion:
1. Sorting clothing and hanging it up.
2. Keeping shelves stocked and clean.
3. Carrying heavy boxes of hygiene items in and out of the shed.
4. Packing food bags.
5. Making lunches for the Street Outreach.
6. Taking bags of non-usable donations to Goodwill.
7. Vacuuming and taking out the trash.
8. Breaking down our cardboard for recycling.
9. Making cookies for the Street Outreach lunches.
10. Decorating Hope House for the holidays.
11. Doing intake interviews with our clients.
12. Checking clients out and bagging their “purchases”.
13. Helping clients find just what they need.
14. Listening to the needs of those seeking financial assistance, and finding solutions.
15. Offering hugs and prayers to those who need them.
16. Keeping the chaos of Angel Tree gifts under control at Christmas.
Our volunteers come from all ages and walks of life. We have teenagers, young mothers, former clients and retired persons from both Assumption parish and St. Paul’s Episcopal Church working at Hope House. What they all have in common is the right mind set for this job—the firm conviction that we are serving the Body of Christ as He would have us serve them. This is not a casual volunteer job—it is a calling of sorts, and we are a little picky about who serves here.
We have been closed since right before Christmas, but each time I stopped by Hope House to drop something off or check on things, there was always at least one volunteer in there, working on some project during our closed time. Dedication with a capital D!
So, in this New Year, may we be needed less, but be more helpful; and may you all continue to support us in whatever way you can!